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The fear of reaching is who is a virgin past a certain point – generally as soon as puberty hits, if we’re honest about it – is convinced that they’re on the cusp of reaching some nebulous “point of no return”.That deadline – the idea we have to lose our virginity by X date or remain forever unfuckable – tends to vary; we tend to put undue importance on arbitrary dates because they carry totemic significance for us.

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Steve Carrell’s character may be middle-aged with a steady job, a sizable apartment, a car and presumably relatively debt free…

but because he’s never managed to actually penetrate a woman, he’s still obsessed with “childish” things.

Meanwhile, we live in a culture that glorifies male sexual conquests even as it pathologizes male sexuality.

Here’s the hard and fast truth about virgins and virginity: it’s a completely cultural construct.

When you strip away all of the value placed on sex and sexuality and look at it with an unemotional eye, virginity is a lack of a particular physical experience.

Women on the other hand are taught that their sexual desirability has a built in expiration date; pass a specific point and nobody will have want to have sex with you, not when they could bang someone younger instead.